Eileen used to cry herself to sleep
almost every night.When she was pregnant
11 years ago she was so happy because her
life-long dream was coming true. She was
finally going to be a mom. It had been 5
long years of infertility treatments with
disappointment after disappointment.
She was married to Marty, a great guy.
Sure they had challenges, (his mother,
her spending) but they were in
love and when she found out she was pregnant
she was so excited and couldn't have ever
imagined that things would turn out like this.
At her first ultrasound it was confirmed
that she would be having a girl. Eileen was
so excited and imagined what her daughter
would look like and how she would raise her
with lots of love and never do the things
that her parents used to do with her.
She imagined her being the little
buddy/best friend/mini-me version of herself
and imagined all the fun they would have
together. Everything went great in the
delivery room and all of her fears about
having a baby with two heads went away.
Everything was great!
When her daughter turned two she
started acting out.You know the usual
"terrible twos" types of stuff like
saying "no" to everything and throwing
temper tantrumswhen she didn't get her way.
The problem is the "terrible twos"
never stopped.When she turned 4 she was
kicked out of preschool for aggressive
behavior toward other kids. When she was 6
she started back talking her mom and dad
every chance she got and now that she's
10 she acts out with everyone-
teachers, dance instructor, and even her
grandmother.
And lately Eileen's been crying herself to
sleep wondering what happened to her dream
of having a fun loving child
that she would want to spend time with.
Where did this "demon-child" come from?
And how can she turn it around, she wondered.
She read all sorts of books and even tried
psychotherapy. Finally, she found my website
and read my book. She tried the "immediate
respect robot approach" and found that it
actually worked!
So she gave me a call to see if she could
actually hire me to help turn things around
once and for all. There are 7 things we worked
on to create peace and harmony,
and bring love back into the house.
I'll share these with you in a second,
but first I want to let you know that I'll
be working with a small group of parents
that want to create an amazing relationship
with their children to help them do these
same 7 things. This program starts on Tuesday,
June 3, 2008.
*** The 7 Secrets To Powerful Parenting***
'Turn around any child's behavior and have the
relationship that you have dreamed about.'
You can read more about it here:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
Secret #1: The Power of Respect
Not having your child respect you is one
of the worst experiences a parent can have.
It's bad enough when it happens at home
but even more embarrassing when you are out
in public. Maybe you even looked away and
pretended that it wasn't your child! Later when
you got to the car you might have lectured your
child about their behavior.
I am going to share a secret with you right
now. No more lecturing...all you have
to do is say, "Please do not speak to me
that way." That's it, end of story. I'll
share the rest of the secret on Tuesday
night at the first tel-seminar along with
how to stop back-talk when the first warning
doesn't work and more.
Secret #2: The Power of Calm
Do you realize that your child is actually
VERY smart? He/She learned exactly how to
push your buttons. He/She knows exactly which
buttons to push and how far they can go. But,
if you can actually stay calm when they're trying
to push your buttons you take back more of
your power. How do you stay calm?
In my upcoming program, I'll be sharing 3
powerful techniques to help you get calm even
when you're in the middle of some serious "stuff"
and how to start getting rid of some of those
buttons in the first place. The first one is that
you have to take out your emotion. I'll show
you how in session #2.
Click here to learn more:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
Secret #3: The Power of Motivators
Would you go to work if you didn't
get paid? Well maybe you would and
maybe you woudn't. You might go if
you got something out of it...like a
sense of accomplishment, a pat on
the back, a high 5, or "Hey, great
job!". My point is that we don't do
things usually unless there is some kind of
reward.
Parents sometimes punish children for
not cooperating...not doing their chores.
And you know where that gets you....
Yup, right in the middle of WWIII! In week #3
I'll uncover the secret to "Whistle While You
Work" how to get your kid to help with a smile
on his face.
Sign up here to get smiling, helpful children:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
Secret #4 The Power of Allowance
Most parents tell me that they sometimes
Give their kids allowance but they really don't
Think that they should because the kids don't do
their chores and the kids should earn it.
What if I told you that the purpose of allowance
was to teach your child financial management and
that starting at age 5 was appropriate?
During this tel-seminar I'll show you how to turn
your children into responsible money managers and
I'll also show you how this method will save you thousands
of dollars. (Dollars that you can put towards saving for
your own future retirement.)
Sign up here to raise financially responsible kids:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
#5 The Power of Streamlining
You have so much on your plate; work, housework,
cooking, cleaning, driving kids here and there, helping
kids with homework, and on and on and on. I bet that
your day off is spent grocery shopping and running
errands, catching up on laundry, paying bills, etc..
Have you heard of grocery delivery? You go on the
internet and shop the virtual aisles while clicking on
your purchases... pick a delivery time and wait for
the nice young person to ring your doorbell and
carry all 15 bags into your home. Guess what?
You will spend a lot less! Those extra things that
usually make it into your cart, won't.
I Have dozens more tips to save you time, money
sanity. Yes, I said sanity. You will also gain lots of free
time for yourself and to spend with your children.
Sign up here to get more fun, free time with your
Kids:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
#6 The Power of Harmony
Does each member of your family have a different
schedule? Are you hard pressed to get your family
together for a meal? Do you eat dinner in the car
some nights between driving your kids to and from
their sports?
How many TV's do you have in your home? If
You want more harmony get rid of all but one.
Your family will learn to share and make decisions
together. Family members won't be holed up in
different corners of the house.
During this session, we'll learn about creating
family memories, rituals and I'll tell you the # 1 secret
to having the best family meeting on the block.
Want a peaceful home? Click here:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
#7 The Power of Sustainability
In this last session, we'll tie it all
ogether so you are utilizing all your parenting
powers. I'll uncover the secrets to why you will
never have to learn another parenting system again,
how this system can carry you and your family
all the way until you launch your child. You'll
discover the secrets that most coaches will
never tell you...how to get back on your
horse when you fall off...
I am limiting this class to 20 parents...and
this seminar will sell out.
So...don't wait.. act now
click here to reserve your space and join the
parents who will be getting more respectful
children starting on Tuesday!
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
Hey, I believe in what I am teaching
so much that I will give you my unconditional
happiness guarantee. If you sign up, apply my
system and this does not get you results...I
will refund you the cost of the seminar!
What do you have to lose?
Don't miss out...this seminar is guaranteed
to improve your relationship with your child.
Sign up NOW at:
http://www.parentingpowers.com/parentingpowerstelsem7steps.htm
Hope to see you on the call, Tuesday night 8pm EST
Best wishes for a peaceful home,
Your Parent Coach,
Susan
860-437-0233